Posted: Tue Nov 15, 2022 11:28am
The two replies you have had illustrate why it's important to come and spend time here before deciding where to live.
Nerja is not in the sticks. I think Nerja is a bit too busy and crowded but, it's easy to get to and has much to offer. I wouldn't live west of Malaga if you paid me, it's just not my cup of tea at all. But for many people it's wonderful. See? One man's meat is another man's poison.
It's really not possible for other people to say whether or not somewhere will suit you. If you know what you like doing, if you are clear about what you need, if you can speak Spanish, if you are confident about managing Spanish officialdom, then we might be able to direct you based on those criteria but, whether you'll feel at home is an entirely personal thing. What might look good on paper may not work in real life. You might stumble across somewhere that you'd never heard of and find it suits you perfectly (as I did). But that can only happen if you take your 90 days allowance and travel around the region. I'm sure you'll get lots of help and advice on here when you can be more specific. Best of luck in finding somewhere, I reckon none of us on this site regret coming to Spain - wherever it is we live!